another one
This is the third time that i learned that my friend had just broke up with his/her girl/boyfriend... Seriously, truthfully, honestly i don't know how to cheer people who is going through these situation.. I don't know what to do, what to say, how to react... My mind just went blank...
It hurts, painful and sad to see people that are going through this kind of experience... It made me think about my relationship in the future too... it made me more determined to be careful when choosing who i want to go out with...made me determined that i don't want to go out with anyone just because of a childish feeling...a sudden rush of emotions...something that i feel just for the moment...or just out of desperation...or even because everyone around me says that he's "good" "nice" "kind" etc2 and all that crap
ive seen it, and i know the result and it's always the same... easily predicted... that if - when choosing a boyfriend/girlfriend- is only because of sudden feeling/ desperation/ pressure/ influence of others... the end will NEVER go right! Basically, don't go out with a person YOU don't really know the person...if you're not really prepared to let go of your pride for the person...if you're not prepared to tolerate and work together to create an agreement together... DONT go out with a person if you yourself is not ready...
Yes. I am picky. Even to the point that people call me a lesbian because i never go out with anyone before... but i can tolerate that, i don't care if people call me a lesbian or if people says that i don't want to go out because i want to be a nun or live for "God"..
In a way it's true.. i don't go out with anyone yet because i want to live for God, i want to do things that are pleasing Him, and one of the ways are by NOT going out with anyone when i myself is not ready yet, and by NOT going out with anyone just because of selfish reasons. and by truly depending on Him and truly have faith that He knows what's best.
How do i know then what's God's plan for me? OBVIOUSLY i DONT know... but i know that when the time comes... He will prepare me for it...
True, our faith is blind, but it's not truly blind because God always gives us a sneak peak of the future even without us relising it. He prepares us, and that is precisely why His ways are best, because when we're actually there, we are already set to take full responsibility of it.
So yeah... Don't ever try to be god over ourselves, because its NOT worth it.. just let God be God and do His wonderful and perfect work in us
It hurts, painful and sad to see people that are going through this kind of experience... It made me think about my relationship in the future too... it made me more determined to be careful when choosing who i want to go out with...made me determined that i don't want to go out with anyone just because of a childish feeling...a sudden rush of emotions...something that i feel just for the moment...or just out of desperation...or even because everyone around me says that he's "good" "nice" "kind" etc2 and all that crap
ive seen it, and i know the result and it's always the same... easily predicted... that if - when choosing a boyfriend/girlfriend- is only because of sudden feeling/ desperation/ pressure/ influence of others... the end will NEVER go right! Basically, don't go out with a person YOU don't really know the person...if you're not really prepared to let go of your pride for the person...if you're not prepared to tolerate and work together to create an agreement together... DONT go out with a person if you yourself is not ready...
Yes. I am picky. Even to the point that people call me a lesbian because i never go out with anyone before... but i can tolerate that, i don't care if people call me a lesbian or if people says that i don't want to go out because i want to be a nun or live for "God"..
In a way it's true.. i don't go out with anyone yet because i want to live for God, i want to do things that are pleasing Him, and one of the ways are by NOT going out with anyone when i myself is not ready yet, and by NOT going out with anyone just because of selfish reasons. and by truly depending on Him and truly have faith that He knows what's best.
How do i know then what's God's plan for me? OBVIOUSLY i DONT know... but i know that when the time comes... He will prepare me for it...
True, our faith is blind, but it's not truly blind because God always gives us a sneak peak of the future even without us relising it. He prepares us, and that is precisely why His ways are best, because when we're actually there, we are already set to take full responsibility of it.
So yeah... Don't ever try to be god over ourselves, because its NOT worth it.. just let God be God and do His wonderful and perfect work in us
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